ADVISE TO ALL SINGLE LADIES - Single meaning NOT married.

What you did in the past because of your heart was not a willing mistake, neither it wasn't negligence nor intention,

BUT a human error of misjudgment of seeing a wrong somebody. It was a heart that left your astray, NOW dare to be driven by Holy Spirit not your HEART.

You are a human like others, so, you are bound to make mistakes that can affect you future BUT you have the power to turn thing around as a Christian. You have the power to command bad things to go away and command blessed packages to follow you all days of your life. You have to command them. 

Don't despair, rejoice that God made you wiser to not marry any of your exes because your husband will be non like them, he'll be a man after God's own heart. You just have to go good places for him to find you. Man look in good places as well whether he's not man after God's own heart the fact is he will still snoop around in good places to find a wife. So place yourself ready in "good places" to be found.

In Marketing we say position yourself to appeal to target market/audiences. 

You won't necessarily find a man of God in "wired places" but more likely (I say more likely not definitely) in church or gospel concerts or home cells including other gatherings in relations to gospel. 

Sometime you may meet someone in this good places who knows someone who can be a perfect match, and we call this meeting a "DEVINE CONNECTION" because you had to meet this person or go to this place to get your future husband.

But the best advice would be to begin to form new friends in church/good places and keep your old friends (do not abundon them) though they don't do church stuff BUT see them with timetable perhaps once in a while. If they are good friend they'll applaud your wise move, if they aren't pod friends for you they'll criticize your swift change; and try to blackmail you about your past. Ignore them, press forward, they'll follow you.

It's worth it, you will have sacrifice some of them, you will have to let go some of them and stick to the few promising friends. Life is a precious thing, treasure it and christ it; it's very short to spend it in unhappier moment.

Friends can have a positive/negative impact on you. Highly likely to assist you in decision making process which may be a flop or a success. Seek Holy Spirit guide you and Protect you. 

Have a blessed life as you make a good decision today - wise choices